once you know yourself in depth you have to learn to appreciate and love yourself. Nobody will appreciate you as much as
yourself. Appreciate everything about you: the way you are, the way you smile, the way you sing, the way you love. Only by
understanding that you are a unique and precious human being, you will be able to really care about others. Every person living on
this planet is beautiful and you are one of them.
I have an exercise for you. Take ten minutes in front of a mirror. Watch yourself really close. Try to understand how your fingers,
your arms, legs, eyes, nose and your brain work. Then imagine how it would be to live without any of them. I bet that after the
exercise you will appreciate yourself even more.
4. Appreciate everyone
Now that you know your true value you have to be able to find every person's value. And let me repeat something I just told you,
every human being is beautiful and unique. We are perfect creatures. If you try to understand how the human body works, you
will realize that it is one perfect machine. If you try to learn about the way your brain works, you will see that it is the most
amazing super computer ever created.
Take a moment to see the people around you, with their goodness and flaws. They are just like you, they are just like your mother
and father, like your husband or wife, like your children. You might think that we are all different but we are not. The only
difference is the way in which life has shaped the personalities. We are the sum of all our moments.
5. Understand that everybody is different.
Once you appreciate yourself and appreciate others, you will find out that every person is different and that is why in love matters
everybody behaves in different ways.
If you used in the past a seduction technique that turned out well, it does not mean that it will always work. Remember that every
personality is different and for each one of them you need a different approach. For example, althought being straightforward work
most of the times, some shy people can find it intimidating.
That is why before trying to seduce somebody you must identify his/her personality and personal qualities in order to have a good
strategy and a correct approach